{"id":169,"date":"2011-11-06T23:40:35","date_gmt":"2011-11-06T22:40:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xn--bykadada-65ab.biz\/?p=169"},"modified":"2012-01-04T03:02:39","modified_gmt":"2012-01-04T02:02:39","slug":"yasamin-kiyisinda-sevgiyi-paylasmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xn--bykadada-65ab.biz\/?p=169","title":{"rendered":"Ya\u015fam\u0131n k\u0131y\u0131s\u0131nda sevgiyi payla\u015fmak"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"selanik\"G\u00fcn\u00fcn birinde sevgiyi payla\u015fmak ad\u0131na bir \u015feyler karalayaca\u011f\u0131m gelmezdi akl\u0131ma. 1960 l\u0131 y\u0131llarda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m B\u00fcy\u00fckaday\u0131 \u00a0d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcnce,\u00a0 bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn resmini g\u00f6rmem pek zor olmad\u0131.<\/strong> Sokak kap\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kilitlenmedi\u011fi, sofralar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n t\u00fcm dostlara a\u00e7\u0131k oldu\u011fu \u00a0y\u0131llar\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczle k\u0131yaslad\u0131k\u00e7a \u00a0ge\u00e7en y\u0131llar i\u00e7erisinde, nekadar fakirle\u015fti\u011fimizi g\u00f6rd\u00fcm.
\n\u0130nsani de\u011ferlerin \u00a0\u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc! A\u011flaman\u0131n, g\u00fclmenin, h\u00fcz\u00fcnlenmenin , sevmenin, \u00a0makinala\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131, h\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme melekemizi elimizden alan \u015fu garip D\u00fcnyadan,\u00a0 ne bekliyebilirki art\u0131k \u00a0insan.<\/p>\n

Tabiki; ya\u015fam kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 bir dokunu\u015fta, bak\u0131\u015fta , hissetmekte gizli. Bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn yapay de\u011ferlerinde de\u011fil. Her \u015feyi \u00a0Maddiyatta, L\u00fckste, ararmak, bencilli\u011fin had safhaya ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczden ba\u015fka ne beklenirki.<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131m\u0131z ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z karma\u015fan\u0131n esiri olmu\u015f o kadar ucuz de\u011ferlere ortak olmu\u015fuz ki , her g\u00fcn biraz daha yok oluyoruz, biraz daha karma\u015fa i\u00e7inde ya\u015fam\u0131n fark\u0131na varmadan kaybolup gidiyoruz. O kadar \u00e7ok acele ya\u015f\u0131yoruz ki hayat\u0131! Bir tabloya bakarken, \u00a0bir kitab\u0131 okurken bile, neyi anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fczerinde durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye f\u0131rsat bulam\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z y\u00fczy\u0131lda insanlar art\u0131k sadece ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131 daha zengin bir ortamda s\u00fcrd\u00fcrme kayg\u0131s\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yorlar. As\u0131l de\u011ferlerin yerini (sayg\u0131, sevgi, dostluk, g\u00fcven, payla\u015f\u0131m gibi) maddi de\u011ferler alm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

Yar\u0131m b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015feyleri saymak dahi istemiyorum , bu acelecilik niye? Sevgimizi \u00a0bile ya\u015fayam\u0131yoruz, payla\u015fam\u0131yoruz. Bir birimize yeterince vakit ay\u0131ram\u0131yoruz. Ya\u015fam\u0131n yan\u0131ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdan su gibi ak\u0131p ge\u00e7ti\u011finin fark\u0131na varam\u0131yoruz. Dostluklar bile sahte ve \u00e7\u0131kar ili\u015fkilerinden \u00f6teye ge\u00e7miyor. Fark\u0131nda m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? ne kadar \u00e7ok \u00f6zl\u00fcyoruz g\u00f6n\u00fcl dostlar\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgilerini.<\/p>\n

A\u015fklar sahte, Sevgililer sevgisiz , Dostluklar bile sahte ve evlilik kurumlar\u0131 bile \u00a0\u00e7\u0131kar ili\u015fkilerinden \u00f6teye ge\u00e7miyor art\u0131k. Her \u015fey kazanmak \u00fczerine kurulmu\u015f \u00a0g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde, de\u011fer \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcleri de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f, maddeye ula\u015fman\u0131n her yolu m\u00fcbah. Zaman nekadar ac\u0131mas\u0131z davranm\u0131\u015f fark\u0131nda olmadan ne kadar \u00e7ok \u00f6zler olmu\u015fuz \u00a0dostluklar\u0131 ve sevgileri \u00a0san\u0131r\u0131m elimizden hi\u00e7 bir\u015fey gelmiyor \u00f6zlemekten ba\u015fka.<\/p>\n

Neden hep yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 se\u00e7iyoruz \u00e7o\u011funlukla, neden hep bo\u011fuldu\u011fumuzu san\u0131p ka\u00e7\u0131yoruz insanlardan? Bu acelecilik bu korku bu ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f niye? Sevgileri ger\u00e7ek dostluklar\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u00fcyor muyuz hep beraber, sevgilerimizi de \u00f6ld\u00fcrecek kadar sevgi katili olmuyor muyuz?<\/p>\n

Biliyoruzki, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerimizle ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131z aras\u0131ndaki ilintiler \u00e7o\u011fu kez \u00f6zlenenin, umulan\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kal\u0131yor. Toplum olarak da, bireysel olarak da, durmadan bir karamsarl\u0131\u011fa bir y\u0131lg\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa do\u011fru s\u00fcr\u00fckleniyoruz.<\/p>\n

Sevgiyle bak\u0131p b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz bir \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi sevgi u\u011fruna dal\u0131ndan kopar\u0131p sevdi\u011fimize verirken, hatta \u00f6rf ve adetlerimiz u\u011fruna g\u00fcn ve g\u00fcn sevgiyi katletmiyormuyuz. Sevgiyi dudaklar\u0131m\u0131zdan kalbimize indiremeden her f\u0131rsatta sevgi s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc a\u011fz\u0131m\u0131zda sak\u0131z gibi \u00e7i\u011fnemekten yorulmad\u0131km\u0131.<\/p>\n

Biliyoruzki, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerimizle ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131z aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkiler \u00e7o\u011fu kez arzu edilenin, umulan\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kal\u0131yor. Toplum olarak da, bireysel olarak da, durmadan bir karamsarl\u0131\u011fa bir y\u0131lg\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa do\u011fru s\u00fcr\u00fckleniyoruz. Hayat\u0131 sevmeyi \u00f6\u011frenemeden, sevilemeden, sevgi s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k haline getirmi\u015f olur olmaz kullan\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n

Bunlar\u0131 yazarken ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fu D\u00fcnyada\u00a0 yang\u0131n yerine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f \u00a0sevgisizli\u011fin, adaletsizli\u011fin, vurdum duymazl\u0131\u011f\u0131n hayat\u0131m\u0131za nas\u0131l girdi\u011fini bizleri nas\u0131l etkileyip\u00a0 bir bilinmeze s\u00fcr\u00fckledi\u011finin fark\u0131na varal\u0131m istedim.<\/p>\n

Ey siz sessiz, sevgilerin sessiz ortaklar\u0131\u2026 Ben do\u011fup, b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm, d\u00f6rt bir taraf\u0131 sularla \u00e7evrilmi\u015f, her kezin birbirine sevgiyle bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131, kederini, mutlulu\u011funu payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131, rengarenk\u00a0 \u00e7i\u00e7eklerin yan yana b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, kendine has kokular\u0131n\u0131 sald\u0131\u011f\u0131, bah\u00e7emi geri istiyorum. Bu serin gecenin sisli havas\u0131nda \u0131slak damlac\u0131klar\u0131 bedeninize yay\u0131l\u0131rken, \u00fc\u015f\u00fcy\u00fcp ka\u00e7mak yerine, Y\u00fcre\u011finize sevginin s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 esir edin\u2026 Ve bunun kendinize Tanr\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan bah\u015fedilmi\u015f en kutsal \u00f6d\u00fcl say\u0131n. Sevin yaln\u0131zca sevin\u2026
\nYa\u015fam\u0131n k\u0131y\u0131s\u0131nda da olsan\u0131z\u00a0 sevginizi payla\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n

M.Tevfik \u00d6zkartal<\/p>\n

Gazete Almanci & Euroviyzon<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

G\u00fcn\u00fcn birinde sevgiyi payla\u015fmak ad\u0131na bir \u015feyler karalayaca\u011f\u0131m gelmezdi akl\u0131ma. 1960 l\u0131 y\u0131llarda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m B\u00fcy\u00fckaday\u0131 \u00a0d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcnce,\u00a0 bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn resmini g\u00f6rmem pek zor olmad\u0131. Sokak kap\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kilitlenmedi\u011fi, sofralar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n t\u00fcm dostlara a\u00e7\u0131k oldu\u011fu \u00a0y\u0131llar\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczle k\u0131yaslad\u0131k\u00e7a \u00a0ge\u00e7en y\u0131llar i\u00e7erisinde, nekadar fakirle\u015fti\u011fimizi … Okumaya devam et →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[28],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/xn--bykadada-65ab.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/169"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/xn--bykadada-65ab.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/xn--bykadada-65ab.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xn--bykadada-65ab.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xn--bykadada-65ab.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=169"}],"version-history":[{"count":18,"href":"https:\/\/xn--bykadada-65ab.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/169\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":172,"href":"https:\/\/xn--bykadada-65ab.biz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/169\/revisions\/172"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/xn--bykadada-65ab.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=169"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xn--bykadada-65ab.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=169"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xn--bykadada-65ab.biz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=169"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}